Love is a beautiful feeling.
And knowing someone genuinely loves you makes the feeling even better.
Perhaps you are in a relationship and want to know how your man feels about you, or, let’s, you are still single and want to know what to look out for regarding genuine relationships in the future.
Well, I got you.
First of all, let us find out what love is.
According to one of the descriptions on Google,
Love is a deep affection or a strong emotion between two people.
It involves feelings of care, compassion, attachment, and intimacy.
Let us go through 10 ways to know whether your person genuinely loves you.
1. He enjoys spending time with you.
Life is busy, right?
If your partner creates time to be with you and enjoys every moment, it shows how genuinely he loves you.
A man who truly loves you will make time to be with you no matter how busy his schedule is and enjoy every moment.
He does this to show you he values your company.
2. He talks about a future with you.
A partner who genuinely loves you will include you in his future plans.
He will often use ‘’we’’ or ‘’us’’ while talking about plans he has 2 to 3 years with you.
Sometimes he may even joke about the kids you will have together.
All this is to show you he sees a future with you.
3. He communicates.
Communication is the bedrock of all relationships.
A genuine lover will be consistent in his communication.
He will communicate openly and effectively whether it is through text or calls.
He will call to check on you and try to find out how your day is going.
All this is to keep the relationship alive and going.
4. He is respectful.
Another sign of genuine love from a man is that he is respectful.
He respects your thoughts, opinions, and the inputs you bring into the relationship.
Despite not agreeing on certain issues he will not look down on you and will instead, respect your thoughts as the two of you come to a compromise.
5. He is supportive.
He will be your number-one cheerleader and support system,
Supporting your dreams and goals whether career-wise or your passions.
He is not the one to tell you to quit what your heart truly wants to pursue and will always be there to celebrate you when you achieve your goals.
6. He trusts you.
Genuine love will find no reason not to trust you.
He is not the one to go through your phone checking who you talk to.
You can be away from each other for weeks and he will not be worried because he trusts you.
7. He is thoughtful.
His actions toward you will be thoughtful.
He will remember small and simple details about you, like your birthday or your favorite drink even if you mentioned it to him once.
When it comes to gifting he will gift you thoughtful gifts that will make you feel loved and thought about.
8. He is open with you.
Another telling sign a guy loves you genuinely is how open he is with you.
As we all know men are quite hard to open up and a guy who opens up to you freely about intimate things in his life genuinely loves you.
He will share his dreams, visions, and fears as a sign of genuine love.
9. He prioritizes you.
You are a priority to him always.
A guy who genuinely loves you will prioritize your needs and well-being.
He will give no reason to feel like you have to keep fighting for his attention.
You will feel loved and valued.
10. He values your opinion.
Your opinion on different issues will matter to him.
He will not sideline you when he is making important decisions,
he will consider them.
You will feel heard and understood in the relationship.
