You love this guy so much but something deep down feels off,
Your feelings and effort are hardly reciprocated, you have tried ignoring this feeling for a while now but as the days go by the more confused you become about his true feelings towards you.
First of all, anytime you begin to question whether a guy is using you, that should be the first red flag that something is not right.
You see when you love someone you don’t see the things happening in front of you.
The feelings you have towards him can blind you.
Well, If you have been having doubts about your lover let me clear them by taking you through some sure signs he is just using you.
1. He only communicates at night.
You don’t see him or receive any of his calls during the day he only calls you at night.
Sorry to burst your bubbles but honestly this is just a booty call. It’s clear he is not into you and only wants someone to keep him entertained to avoid boredom.
Anytime you suggest a meet-up during the day he comes up with so many excuses of his unavailability. A man who is into you longs to spend time with you.
The truth is he only wants you for the night and sees nothing beyond that.
2. He has never taken you out on an actual date
It’s either you are meeting at his place or your place he never wants to hang out with you anywhere else.
A man who truly wants you will enjoy taking you out on dates and getting to know you more, if he is doing the opposite well he is not interested in you other than what he is getting from you.
3. He is only available on weekdays.
He is never available on weekends coz probably he is out there finding other girls.
His calls are only on weekdays when he is bored and nothing much is happening.
You are his go-to girl when he has no options.
4. He is not interested in what’s going on in your life.
Another sign he is just using you is that he is never interested in what is happening in your life.
You get a promotion at work and you are excited to tell him but he seems disinterested.
He does not care about you or your life his only interest is what you give him. A clear sign he is a selfish lover.
5. He ignores your text.
You text him today only to receive a reply after a couple of days and he comes up with some lame excuses of how he was unable to reply to your text on that particular day.
Since your feelings towards him are genuine you give him some benefits of doubt and the cycle continues.
Anytime you text a man and your text goes for days without a reply it’s time you rethink your place in his life. A man in love wants to talk to her woman constantly.
6. He does not make time for you.
If he is not getting anything from you he sees no need for a meet-up. You are not a priority in his life and that is why he doesn’t prioritize your needs.
He always comes up with a million and one excuses as to why he can’t meet you.
The truth is he doesn’t want to hang out with you if he is not getting any favors.
7. He is only interested in one thing.
Yes, and its probably sex or other favors he does not care about you as a person only what he gets from you.
It’s always about him and his needs. Those are the only things that keep him around,
Try limiting or denying him and watch him disappear from your life.
8. He is mostly distracted when you meet.
He is either on his phone or something is keeping him busy he does not seem to enjoy your company and you have to constantly beg for his attention.
This is a clear sign you are only being used and he is not really into you.
9. You don’t know his friends.
You have never met any of his friends, the reason being he does not want to show you around.
A man who cares about you will introduce you to his friends and try to get an opinion of you from them since he is proud of you.
10. He is nice when he wants to.
The first time you met him he was nice and warm to you.
But you no longer understand him one day he is the nicest person to you the next day he is a totally different person.
11. He does not kiss outside the bedroom.
He only wants you in secluded places and his reason is he is not a PDA kinda guy.
The truth is he is only using you, when we want someone we want the whole world to know that we are proud of them.
12. You have a hard time saying no to him.
You are afraid of losing him so you find yourself doing things that don’t feel right with you.
Being with him is like walking on eggshells you are not yourself around him and it tries you to keep up.
