What goes through a man’s mind after sleeping with a woman?

Well, there are several things a man contemplates after the act.

While a majority of guys may choose to keep these things to themselves, the truth is, they do ponder over them time and again.

Surprisingly, for ladies, some of these things may not necessarily bother them.

But for guys, they do; some not-so-serious thoughts occupy their minds after bonking a woman.

Curious to find out some of the things guys think about after sleeping with a woman?

Here are a couple of things guys ponder after sexual intercourse.

1. Did she enjoy?

This is a question most guys deliberate over, especially if they care about you.

Did she enjoy what we did? 

Did she like the experience?

Is she willing to have it again if I request it?

These are just a few of the things a guy will contemplate.

While this may not apply to all guys, as some are in it for their own good, some guys are genuinely concerned about satisfying a woman in bed.

He may not ask you directly whether you enjoyed it or not, but deep down, he wishes he knew.

2. Did I finish too fast?

A guy’s performance in bed varies depending on different factors, such as mood, attraction, situation, and intention.

If he finishes too fast, it may worry him, and he may think of the reason that led to that.

Be it a one-night stand or an ongoing relationship, every man wants to feel he gave his best during the act.

It’s good to compliment him if he did a great job, but be honest, if you want him to improve on something.

It boosts his self-confidence knowing his woman was satisfied.

3. Did I stay for too long?

Just like finishing fast, a guy may be concerned when he takes too long to finish.

He knows staying for too long will make a woman tired and inpatient, which will eventually kill the mood.

If he stayed for too long, he would start to think of what might have caused that.

4. I hope I am the best she has ever had. 

Every man wants to be the best a lady has ever had, so he will be willing to go to lengths to prove himself, especially if he is into you.

It makes him feel good, knowing that no other guy has ever made you feel like he did.

It’s a random thought that most guys question.

5. I hope she is on contraception.

This happens mostly if it was a one-night stand, and both of you were drunk, hence no one cared to use protection.

A guy will hope you are on the pill because he probably is not willing to continue with the relationship, or he is not into you.

He is aware that there are a lot of risks involved with engaging in unprotected sex, but having an unplanned baby is something he is not willing to risk.

6. Is she seeing someone else?

You probably gave each other a memorable night, and now he wants you all for himself.

The thought that you could be seeing someone else makes him jealous.  

The other reason he thinks about this is coz he probably has feelings for you, or he likes you, and is afraid you might be involved with someone else.

7. What’s next?

This is a question that bothers a lot of guys, especially after sleeping with a woman they were not interested in.

Maybe his only intention was to get into her pants, and now he is afraid you might want something more.

This is a situation that gets guys in a fix, and they wonder how they will pull themselves out without hurting a woman’s feelings.

8. What happened last night?

When a guy is drunk or intoxicated, he is not fully aware of his actions.

He may have taken a woman over to his place, and they ended up sleeping together.

When he wakes up in the morning and sees a woman lying next to him, he will try to recall what happened the previous night, and chances are, he will remember nothing.

9. What was her Name?

It’s not strange for a guy to sleep with a woman and not recall her name. It happens.

And honestly, men do feel guilty after sleeping with you, and they can’t remember your name.

They secretly hope you won’t find out, as this can hurt your feelings.

You see, for men, they sometimes don’t have to know a lot about you for them to sleep with you.

Sad truth, but it is what it is.

10. We shouldn’t have done this.

Guys do sometimes regret having slept with a woman whom they suspect could be someone’s wife or girlfriend.

The other reason a man may feel remorseful for sleeping with you is if he loves and respects you so much, and now he fears you might reject him.

He may not show you openly, but deep down, he regrets what happened.

11. Would she love another round?

If the first round was amazing, a guy hopes you will be interested in round two.

This is also another way to find out if you liked the first round.

He would be curious to find out and would appreciate it if you initiate it.

12 . Should we continue doing this?

It’s common for most guys to weigh their options after sleeping with a woman.

He will contemplate his feelings towards you and whether he is willing to continue with the relationship or to call it quits.

So, whenever you don’t hear from a guy after being sexually involved with him, chances are he saw it as good for things to remain that way, and you should also accept it and move on.