How we handle breakups is different for everyone.

Some choose to isolate themselves and deal with the pain alone while others will look for some company to avoid experiencing that painful phase of life alone.

While all these coping mechanisms may work, some behaviors can leave one partner overthinking or questioning if their significant other has moved on or if there is still hope of rekindling the union.

If you have been getting mixed signals from your ex and cannot debunk his true feelings, here are 10 clear signs that show he is not yet over you.

1. He is still single.

The first way to know your man hasn’t moved on is if he hasn’t found someone new.

When a guy is completely over you he will replace you immediately and move on to a new relationship.

However, if he is still single it means he hasn’t found a better replacement yet and that he is still open to talking things in the hopes that you will revive your relationship.

2. He still contacts you.

If you ex still keeps in touch even after you break up it’s a sign he is still thinking about you.

He will occasionally call or text to ask random stuff while in a real sense, he is missing to hear your voice or he wants to know if you still feel something for him.

A person who is not over you will still want to keep in touch with your life. 

3. He responds to your texts and calls immediately.

An ex who is not yet over you will respond to your texts and calls immediately, this is because he longs to talk to you and that is why he won’t keep you waiting.

So, if you have noticed how swiftly he replies to your text it’s a sign he still wants you back.

4. He stalks you on social media.

Another clear sign he hasn’t moved on is he stalks you on social media.

he likes comments on your post to keep tabs with your current social life.

Your ex is doing this to get your attention which means he still likes you even after what happened between you.

5. He is still friends with your friends.

Your ex-lover has you on his mind if he still hasn’t cut links with your friends.

He does this to find out what you have been telling your friends about him and if there is any chance of getting back together.

He wants your friend to link him so that he can win you back.

6. He is not over your memories together.

Whenever you bump into each other[ wish feels awkward] he still talks and remembers your old sweet memories together.

He will tell you how he misses a vacation you went together or how you used to dance to your favorite music.

It’s a sign he is not yet over the good memories you shared.

7. Your clothes are still at his place.

If your clothes and other personal belongings are still at his place and he hasn’t called you to pick them up he still hasn’t let you go completely.

Your clothes remind him of you even if you are apart and giving them back means it’s over between you something he is not ready to withstand.

8. He blocks and unblocks you.

If you still have deep feelings for someone it can drive you to do some crazy things just to get attention from them.

Your ex’s behavior is no different if he keeps blocking and unblocking you. 

If he sometimes blocks you after a slight disagreement and unblocks you after some time it means he is still emotionally attached to you and anytime his feelings get hurt it is a way to express himself.

9. He has quickly moved on.

Moving on quickly is a green flag that your ex is still not over you. 

He does this to make you feel jealous and show you that even if you guys broke up he has found someone new and is enjoying life.

Nobody moves on fast if the chemistry between you is real there will always be some grace period to grieve and get over each other.

10. He calls you when drunk.

Alcohol brings out our true emotions and makes us vulnerable to our true feelings.

If your ex-lover has been drunk-dialing you lately it is clear he has not moved on you and that you are still on his mind.

He will call you in the middle of the night just to say hi or text you some love emojis to show you his true feelings.