When a guy wants to call it quits in a relationship, there are subtle signs he shows.

He may not voice his intentions openly, but his actions toward you will tell you something is off.

From how he treats you to how much time he spends with you, it will be clear that all is not well.

If you have been wondering why his behavior towards you is suddenly changing, chances are he might be planning to break up with you.

Here are signs he wants a break up.

Reduced calls and texts.

One sure sign a guy still loves you is how consistently he communicates.

He will call, text, and even send funny memes to you during the day to keep the communication alive.

But when his communication suddenly declines, it’s a sure hint all is not well.

If he used to call you often, and now calls only once or doesn’t, that’s a red flag that his attention is somewhere else.

And its a clear sign he might be planning to dump you.

He is constantly looking for any opportunity to fight with you.

If your relationship currently is filled with constant fights and quarrels it’s a clear sign your guy wants to let you go.

When a guy is tried of a relationship he will suddenly starts to look for any small opportunity to fight with you and put all the blame on you.

Its normal for Couples to occasionally have small fights, but if your guy takes things out of hand to create drama, he is up to no good.

This is a sign he is looking for a rift to end things.

You are no longer a priority.

When your man no longer prioritizes you or your needs it’s a sign he wants to end things. A man who still values you will want to treat your priorities with great importance. 

He will always put you first because you matter to him and he cares for you.

However, if he has started putting his friends, work, or hobbies ahead of you, and no longer values your time together,it is a clear sign he wants to end things. 

He no longer talks about the future.

When he no longer talks about your future together, it is because he doesn’t see a future with you.

A man who wants you will include you in his long-term goals. He will talk about the things he would love to do with you in five to ten years.

If he avoids these topics, he is not in it for the long term.

He avoids you.

He avoids any interaction with you because his feelings towards you are slowly fading away.

He no longer enjoys your time together like he used to.

A man who wants you in his life will want to be around you most time.

If every time you plan a meeting, he comes up with excuses as to why you can’t be together, it’s because he no longer enjoys your company or the things you used to do together.

And it’s the reason he wants to end things. 

He has stopped making efforts.

When your boyfriend stops making any effort to grow the relationship and leaves everything to you, it’s clear he isn’t interested in being a part of your life.

He will not make an effort to reach out when you fall out, nor will he own up to his mistakes.

And it gradually starts to feel like a one-sided relationship.

He treats you like a friend.

When your man no longer has any romantic feelings towards you and starts seeing you as a friend, it’s a sure sign he wants to end things.

All the sweet names that he once used to call you slowly start to fade away, and now he mostly addresses you by your name.

You should take this as an indication that he has lost the connection.

He is no longer intimate.

Another sure sign he might be planning to break up with you is that he is no longer intimate with you.

He has stopped showering you with compliments or showing you affection.

He is no longer romantic like he used to be in the initial stages of your relationship.

Intimacy is the glue that holds relationships together, and when lost, the relationship slowly falls apart.

He is secretive.

Another sure sign your man wants to end things is when he suddenly becomes so secretive about his life.

He will no longer share any information about himself or the things that matter to him.

Most of the time, you are together, you will notice his phone is always on silent mode, or he has started deleting calls and text messages, which means he is hiding something from you.

He does not want to define the status of your relationship.

When the guy you are dating does not want to put a label on anything, it is a sign he is not serious with you and does not want any commitment.

He leaves you in a dilemma, wondering whether you are dating or just friends.

A man interested in you will not leave you second-guessing yourself about his feelings for you.